We live in an age of image. We prefer images to reality. We become images.Only images. Then what? We lose the importance of life!
In 2014, An Estonian blonde, cute face, 5ft7’, 24 year-old I met online told me that “men always compliment on my hair and ass and I sometimes wonder if there is much to me!”
Her confession came out when I failed to follow the familiar road of my fellow men. I did not compliment on her hair nor her beautiful physique. She lamented “you’re a different guy.” And that aroused an interest from her side.
I must confess. I used to be an average guy. I used to give a plenty of compliments to women and hoped they’d like me for my generous words. After a while, I realised the women I complimented on their looks, did the opposite e.g. getting closer to me! They taught me that women love compliments in private thoughts.
Yet, soon a man compliments a women’s looks, he hands over his power and women do not like that. That’s why weak complimenting men do not get women!
Next time, get to know her well like another human being. Understand her humanity; what she’d like in person if you were with her at home, would she be a great wife, would be she a great mother, is she understandable? These are important than focusing on her looks.
Hello again.
You write very honestly. As you can see, some do not like it, but I'm looking forward to seeing what you write next. You're have very interesting way of thinking. A greater section of the men, do not trouble yourself with knowledge what women want. Most men will evaluate women looks. And already after, all of the other estimates.
Thank you. I write as I feel. Honest words. Some people do not like what I write. Fine. People live in a fantasy world. You tell the truth. They will hate you.
Compliments like every woman, if they are sincere. But I think that not all women are ready to climb into bed because he compliments. I've been watching the bars, the woman who has come clear of the objectives, to get yourself a a man (even for one night), always leaves a companion. Is often, men, for the same purposes, to leave alone.
What do you think, why is it so?
You're right. Most women like compliments. They feel good when they get compliments. Yet they do not respect men who give them the compliments.
Second point, women can get men at the bars. Men want to have sex with them. Men love women body. Men get turned on by women's body. So all she can say is let's go outside. Women get turned on through words. And most men do not know how to turn on women through words. So they go home along!